The Future of Social Networks
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One key point he makes is that your social groups are usually disjoint sets of people and you may not want to share the same information across multiple groups. For example, you don't want your family to see pictures of you at a wild party that your college friend tagged you in.
Facebook tackles this problem with EdgeRank algorithm that controls the updates that appear in Newsfeeds. EdgeRank takes into consideration the people you interact with the most on Facebook. And I guess, a person interacts a lot with close friends only.
Because there are things that you want to share only with some people (your girlfriend) or close family.
Interestingly enough there are things I wouldn't care if the entire world except my family knew so the circles aren't enclosed within one and other.
Facebook's privacy settings are now pretty good. You can make things visible or invisible to everyone, networks, friends of friends, friends, friend lists or individuals and any combination of these things, e.g. a status update visible only to family except my mother.
I'll start using Facebook lists when they implement it properly. I want my lists of friends to be 100% completely separate. Separate walls, separate news feeds, and I want it to be very obvious which group I am currently working with at any time. If they can't give me that, I'm not interested.
Some of this functionality may be there, but the UI and UX is so horrible that there is little way to predict the output of the system.
What Facebook does not do - and I believe for a good reason - is to make these lists public. It's awkward enough when friends drift apart (which is something that I guess has happened to everyone), but nobody would want to be the first to reset a friend to a connection. So the system just would not work.
For me, anonymity and control are the reasons