In my personal case it would be using the words « master » and « slave » when talking about interfacing databases
In practice, white list means these are good things, and black lists mean these are bad things.
Allow and deny lists are much precise since they only have the one meaning
I genuinely don't know because this aspect of English newspeak hasn't made it to my country yet.
Whenever any work-environment friction will arise, I'll stop using those words for sure, I value my job more than I value terminology.