Perhaps that UX is a part of its allure, it feels like you’re in an exclusive club and you better check in every week to get the latest content.
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=23691168
As far as I can tell, Patreon's most compelling attribute is a clever name. If some other company nailed the discovery and "new connection" experience, they'd own the niche. There's a small network effect but I doubt it's terribly compelling since creators can easily exist on multiple networks.