1. Make it work
2. Make it right
3. Make it fast (uh-oh your nice design prevents performance optimizations, time to scrap it)
The reaction to that is usually to think more about performance ahead of time so you don't get trapped by your theoretically perfect design when the real world comes crashing down.With your hard-won experience you do away with those childish notions of being able to make a perfect elegant design where you don't have to worry about performance until the end.
The most valuable thing you'll find in Sandy's book is that you can actually ignore performance until the end and nearly always (always maybe?) be able to make it fast.
You can regain your optimism from your younger years before the bad experiences and resume this path:
1. Make it work
2. Make it right
3. Make it fast
I think it goes without saying that I highly recommend Sandy's book and think it could be the way forward for quickly writing correct, elegant (composable/re-usable!), and FAST programs.