My best advice would be to just do it. Don't focus on memorizing the syntax of pointer-to-member functions or the stupidly complicated overload rules. C++ is powerful but a lot of it is quite useless in practice.
Instead, you should be writing DNS servers, hiding text as bit patterns in JPEGs, or whatever other thing you find intellectually interesting. Sprinkle in some Google and bake for a few years.
I'm sorry to say that like with most things in life, there aren't any shortcuts here.
The most important skill is general problem solving, and for this a variety of tools is helpful. So in the C++ world, focus on a few language features that are most different from one another. Make sure you know basically how templates work, but don't fret if you've never seen a specialization or any of the 44 corner cases that are unsupported or undefined. Learn at least common STL containers like vectors, sets and maps, and learn basic_string. Expose yourself to at least one algorithm like fill_n(), and recognize how it is different for vectors versus C arrays. Learn ostringstream. Use namespaces, and learn about the "using" keyword. Learn the basics of classes, constructors and destructors, and the RAII technique. Master all of this before exploring the messes that are inheritance and exception handling.
I wrote lots of code, tried use it and then fed what I learnt back into the design. Repeatedly.
I read tons of other people's code. Large, running projects. Example code won't work.
Occasionally, I read books, but the only one I ever read all the way through was /Teach Yourself C++ in 21 Days/ back in 1996 (and its title is ridiculous; I'm still learning every day).
I worked with a lot of really good C++ programmers and had them do my code reviews. The best way to learn is to expose yourself to people who know more than you do and give you feedback.
As one of my coworkers is fond of saying, "If you work with people better than yourself, you'll get better. It just happens naturally."
You can read as much as you want but it will never make you an expert. To fully understand a language you have to live in it for a while.