The Dutch system is not on the side of the consumer. It's simply a bank transaction before they send you the goods.
I absolutely agree that banks should not be the ones discharged with consumer protection but unreversible payments are not nearly as beneficial for consumers even if insured in some ways by the government.
I'd rather have a market protecting me with verified reviews and as close to zero costs for sellers. Not unlimited refunds that put small sellers out of business, leaving only Amazons and eBays.
Banks have developed and signed off on the ideal system; THEY are saying the system is safe, therefore THEY are responsible if something goes wrong with your payment.