I am much more miffed about the Independent Repair Provider Program than this, perhaps because I don't yet know how I feel on this. (and because the IRPP feels like a plain fuck-you to everyone involved, this at least has nuance)
It's my hardware, so I fundamentally believe I should be able to run whatever software I please, but I also don't want my only option to pay for FooWidget to be through whatever (potentially shady) e-commerce platform FooWidget chooses to use.
I also don't want my mom sideloading random dataminer malware by tapping something on a webpage.
Or my nephew to do the same looking for "free v-bucks".
(Actually thinking back now, I convinced my mom to install "free emoji pack" malware as a kid, c. 2005.)
I can't argue that Apple trying to get 30% of WordPress subscription revenue is necessary for that, but I'm not sure what my ideal compromise is. Involving a computer is my first instinct, but it's unsatisfying as a start especially considering the PC is increasingly optional for some.
If I might be so bold, "Let them side-load" kind of feels like "Let them eat cake". Maybe that parallel is beyond hubris, or maybe it's empathetic? Maybe this conondrum sums up Apple as a whole lol.
Edit: "Cake for everyone. Just vanilla, no, no strawberries, and you have to give us 30% of your icing."