I'm kind of a broken record in this sense, but I'll say again that one can pay too much attention to HN and, if they do, they might come to believe that PHP and Ruby are far too slow for most cases and that only serious developers write their backend in Elixir, Python, or Rust, use NoSQL, integrate Kafka for a data pipeline, build frontends in TypeScript or Elm with Svelte, WebPack or GTFO, and containerize everything and scale out with K8s.
99% of the developers here aren't even close to needing to think in terms of that scale, beyond simply not doing dumb things in your code that can happen no matter what tools you use. Hell, there are whole companies that don't need to do these things. A few companies I've worked for or contracted with were bogged down, IMO, because someone couldn't settle for "adequate", making the company suffer because their architecture is so hard to figure out.
I like using "boring" tech(in particular Ember.js, Node.js, Ruby, CouchDB and PostgresSQL/SQLite) because if something gets the job done in a reasonable amount of time, most of which I think comes down to having a competency with a set of tools, then I really don't care very much for drinking from the firehose of frameworks and libraries.
Letting go of ego is tough but, when you do, you're freed from the need to be "like Twitter" or "like Uber" and instead just build things using tools you are genuinely interested in or work for you. It's one thing if you really have the desire to be the kind of wizard to work at Google(and not be relegated to writing shell scripts all day), but if that isn't for you that's fine because the vast majority of jobs out there don't need an archmage.
What most companies need is someone who is going to KISS and not eff things up. If you can do that, you'll have a hard time getting fired even if you sometimes slack off.