The idea of "victim blaming" presupposes that the lady in question is a victim, an assumption that is not supported by fact.
> In my case, not only was I not permitted to cross-examine my accuser, I was eventually informed that there was no accuser, a nonsensical claim eventually disproved by the documentation I received when my ordeal was over. My anonymous accusers did not even include the person I was supposed to have harassed. And when she was interviewed during the course of the investigation she denied that I had ever harassed her.
Perhaps he is lying, but this is not the first criticism I have read of Title IX along these lines.