London, Glasgow, Budapest and Paris all have metro systems that predate the New York Subway
There are multiple bridges that are still in use that predate European colonization of North America
While the oldest airport is in the US, (College Park), Hamburg, Bucharest, Bremen, Rome, Amsterdam, Paris, Sydney all follow very shortly after
AFAICT Skyscrapers is really the only example you give where the US canonically built the v1.0
I think that there are probably other reasons, my suspicion is primarily rent seeking