> Americans place considerable value on punctuality.
From a German perspective, this is wildly untrue.
> Americans place considerable value on punctuality.
From a German perspective, this is wildly untrue.
As I recall, we'd consistently horrify them with our American-ness by walking out to their car to invite them in early.
At the same time, social events in general happen always an hour or so later than announced, except for small gatherings and things with a fixed timeframe such as going to the movies. As a naturally punctual person I've arrived in birthday parties thinking I was being fashionably late and found everybody still pre-shower and the place a mess.
When a family member invites us over for 7:30, they mean 8:00. If you actually arrive at 7:30, they're still getting ready themselves.
It wouldn't be notable except for HOW often they both occur in a pair.
I know I'm doing something wrong when I'm late. Yet I'm sometimes late anyway.
IIRC Australia is also the same.
I'll bet it's the same in Russia and many other Slavic countries.
Although sometimes it backfires and they get more annoyed because "Can't you fix that if you know it happens every time?"
No, you fuckwit, if I could reliably fix it I would have. It's not for lack of trying, so back the fuck off!
Not to mention the clockwork nature of their transportation system... And the Alps... gah, what I am doing sitting at this desk?