If you need RDIMM/LRDIMM the only current AMD alternative to EPYC is the recently announced Threadripper Pro. Launch partner is Lenovo with the ThinkStation P620 where you can get 12-64 cores with up to 1 TB of RAM. Expected to be available in September.
If you can live with 4 memory channels, consumer Threadripper opens up your options enormously.
Threadripper Pro will be even closer to EPYC with 8 memory channels, 128 PCIe 4.0 lanes and RDIMM/LRDIMM support. However, you'd have to wait until September and the Lenovo ThinkStation P620 may be the only choice at time of launch.
For my new machine next year. I'm currently leaning towards ASRock Rack's ROMED8-2T, which is available for order but is not "in stock" at most places (e.g. provantage). It's PCIe 4.0, runs DDR4 at 3200 MHz, and has a reasonably long RAM QVL. I'll go with whatever the best value is for a CPU when I pull the trigger on the upgrade.
tl;dr: Lenovo ThinkStation P620 coming in September