You may be drummed out as CEO of a major corp on trumped up charges (almost any high level exec could be found guilty of this):
https://www.eff.org/deeplinks/2007/10/qwest-ceo-nsa-punished...
You may be assassinated without trial or explanation anywhere in the world:
https://www.nytimes.com/2013/07/18/opinion/the-drone-that-ki...
You may be kidnapped in any country and tortured at a black site in Syria:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maher_Arar
You may be arbitrarily pulled off the streets and detained by unidentified paramilitary forces:
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2020/jul/20/trump-...
It's extremely unlikely if you are white, non-muslim and do exactly as they ask, which may give you some comfort, but the US or other Western states do engage in the things you listed too.
I agree China is a much worse state at present than the US say, but I wouldn't be too comfortable about defying the US government on something they care about - they have murdered, coerced and ruined lives too in the recent past.