From the perspective of the services I'm knee deep in at the moment, SQL feels like the wrong layer to mock at. Instead, when we do want to mock, we usually pass around mocked out data access objects. That way we work at the application layer of `GetN` rather than `SELECT a, b, c FROM N`.
It feels like a lot of the value of the tests we write that do execute sql is a result of them actually running it. Granted, it is slower than mocking, requires synchronous rather than parallel tests, and we need to wipe the impacted tables for every test. However, the value we get is that we know that a query actually has the intended semantic.