Could you share what the problem you're having is? People in https://users.rust-lang.org/ and https://reddit.com/r/rust are more than happy to help, and if I could peek at a repro case running in https://play.rust-lang.org/ I could try to help you too (and potentially fix the diagnostic in the compiler). Also, depending on what the problem is, you might have an easier to understand error in newer versions of the compiler, which is why I recommend newcomers to use nightly and update often: not because they'll use advanced nightly-only features but because we merge diagnostics improvements aimed at newcomers every week.

Also, don't get too discouraged. If you can avoid doing things that require advanced lifetime checking then you can gain enough experience with the rest of the language letting you focus only on that part of the language at a later time. Also, I can confidently tell you that at some point it clicks and you start anticipating things that can cause issues.