For what it's worth, since humans perceive sound logarithmically, a doubling sound of intensity feels like a constant (+3dB) increase of noisiness. This window would not even double sound intensity unless you're right next to it.
Edit: more importantly these are destructive waves, so if anything you’d actually reduce reflections back out into the world.
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So for the person inside the apartment it sounds like a wall in the way, attenuating sound from outside, but for the neighbour across the street, it sounds like a hole absorbing the sound instead of reflecting it like a wall.
With enough points in a directional array it starts to resemble an acoustic hologram, with some remarkable one-way properties.
If you wanted to go really far with this, you could cover the exterior walls of buildings with dense arrays, and it would dampen street sounds for everyone in the neighbourhood, indoors and outdoors. In the street it would sound a bit like there were no buildings either side to reflect sounds back into the street, yet at the same time the buildings would still block sound from neighbouring streets.
Perhaps in future cities will do this.
It also works well enough to see it doesn't really do what you are describing. The energy from negative copy sound waves is being used to cancel out the original sound waves, the better it's working the less energy there is going to sound waves "escaping" to be heard anywhere else.