Why did you keep your TURN relays out of k8s?
But all of our APIs sit in one k8s cluster across two datacenters (Hetzner, with whom we couldn't be happier).
We could definitely do two clusters and probably should, but the secondary data center has few services that it wasn’t really worth the extra work.
I'm particularly interested in what an HA Postgres setup might look like. Assuming you are running some kind of database (whether Postgres or otherwise), what are you doing for persistent storage? Are you using Hetzner's cloud block storage volumes? What is performance like?