When you have one, maybe it take 5 minutes to change a nappy, then you play for 10 minutes after. When you have two, you then have 10 minutes of nappy changing time, then only 5 minutes to play. The time is reallocated, not added to.
do you cook? order delivery one evening and presto, half an hour free.
the only kind of parent that have zero time free after a child are helicopter parents
and that before taking into account there are in a lot of cases two parents.
So, not being a parent yourself, you claim that not only is becoming a parent a choice when it is most certainly NOT (rape, faith, the reasons are myriad) but you also claim to know better than parents just how much time/attention raising a child takes.
Your entire 'argument' in this thread is nothing but what you think/imagine vs. reality
never claimed that. I claimed that time allocation to parenting is a choice. and that's irrefutable idk why it's even a topic up to discussion, but I can see why you might just be trying to misinterpret my position as a easy way out.
> not being a parent yourself
another topic change, and another wrong assumption.