It is a difference in values. You are arguing as if presented with same data that you have there is only one obvious and rational conclusion, but that is simply not the case. If someone has different values they can come to a very different conclusion.
Take Sweden for example, many people view it as a success and the higher than the rest of the EU death rate perfectly acceptable.
Life isn’t life to some if you can’t live it.
The data isn’t black and white. Of course you are comfortable forcing people to behave, Canada is fairly totalitarian in policing of speech, etc. Would never fly in the US.