first off: the whole idea of using oauth in your systems is to externalize authentication. its main usecase is if you have several services which share the same users... usually microservices, but everything else which supports oauth works as well, obviously
if you do not actually want to externalize your authentication, then oauth is likely not what you actually want. (keep in mind this only applies to the process of authentication. you will probably still create a `users` table to put a foreign key on your domain entities. said users table just won't have a `password` field or similar)
under this perspective it makes sense that you basically only find blog posts to integrate 3rd party tools, right? you're just setting out to implement a new oauth2 server otherwise after all, and... i'd strongly suggest you don't. there are so many pitfalls you can fall into. its not a trivial subject.
thankfully, there are readily available FOSS oauth2 servers like keycloak around if thats what you want to use...
but to come back to my initial point: if you do not want to externalize your authentication, then do not use oauth! almost all frameworks already have tools available you can use to authenticate with api tokens. it keeps you within the bounds of your frameworks strength and you can automatically fetch a token on your frontend after the user authenticated with your usual flow.
but i'm already off topic considering your first question. if you do use a solution like keycloak, there are `oauth clients`. these behave exactly as you want.