Sails.js, adonis.js, nest.js meteor etc are all pretty much dead. They try to poorly re-implement everything we love about rails/django. Heck, even modern PHP with type-hints and symphony/laravel is better than full-stack nodejs these days.
If you're so lucky that your django,rails api can't scale your load, you can use Go which is also way better than node.js in every single aspect (standard library, language, tooling, deployment, performance).
That being said though, i'm really excited and curious about graphql servers and prisma.js and how all these tools could eventually introduce a new way to build crud apps but for now i'll stick with proven tech and wait.