I stick with Apple for the privacy. There are features on Android I wish to use, but I can’t bring myself to use an Android phone or putting the effort of cleaning it from all of Google’s trackers.
When tracked through apps, Google is equally open. Apple tries its best to combat tracking, but most apps will still do their best to jump through the tracking contention measures.
https://9to5mac.com/2019/02/07/app-screen-record-apps-remove...
I'd say, always be vigilant of the apps you install. I often check my http request logs to see my phone activity.
I suggest you have a closer look at the MicroG website where this is explained, too: https://microg.org/
The problema Is if you stick with Apple hardware there is no OS alternative
you're stuck with what the dictator (benevolent or not) decides