Not interacting with people, not having a place to go, just being in the house all day is absolutely terrible for my long term well being.
If my place goes full remote I would have to consider renting an office.
Could this just be due to a pandemic? I think in normal WFH, what you described wouldn't be much of a problem.
If they say it's bad for their long term well-being, they very likely know exactly what they're talking about even if your own experience is very different from that.
For me, I don't do social very well, but I still need to interact with people, I get on well with people (AFAICT) but seldom does anyone ever really want to spend leisure time with me. Work forces me to have social interactions that help my "sanity" (by which I mean: a vague hand-wavey notion of mental health).
I'm "happy" day-to-day with hiding away at home; but I tend to spiral downwards as I don't get much social interaction outside of work. Banter is good medicine.
For me this is a midlife thing.
YMMV, and the parent is probably quite different, but that's my recent experience.
I hope this becomes the norm if remote becomes mainstream
It is kind of a nightmare making every employee responsible for being the IT director for free. I imagine that most companies are not going to see good results here. (It's good when it's good, but what do you do when it gets bad? Nobody has a plan.)
All in all, consumer ISPs seem to be doing pretty good with the pandemic, but I worry that it's mostly a string of good luck rather than solid infrastructure investments.
My philosophy is that you just have to accept that we messed up by letting one company monopolize the space, and pay them more for their better service... but not many people agree with me.
Easy, the CPE equipment is garbage or placed in a shitty location. I'm a nerd, but my ancient wifi setup started to struggle with the entire family working and schooling all day. I upgraded to a Ubiquiti solution with multiple antennas and life is good.
I worked on the CPE team for Google Fiber, and indeed, WiFi performance is something that we spent a lot of time on and never got perfect. The average ISP using off-the-shelf CPE doesn't stand a chance. I fear that the CPE is not the problem in my friend's case, and the ISP is just aggressively oversubscribing, and so nothing can be done. Switching to the business plan won't make a difference unless they drop all consumer traffic whenever the business subscriber needs to send and receive, and they are not charging enough money to lead me to believe they're doing that. I don't know anything about DOCSIS, though... I have worked at two ISPs and they both used GPON. The limitations of GPON, however, I understand well ;)
With COVID wfh, I've definitely heard alot of horror stories about local ISPs, especially with time of day based issues. (10 & 2) seem to be high-disruption periods. Where our folks have gotten engaged, 30/35 times it's wireless issues.
One thing that I would offer is for your friend to try to get input from neighbors in a rough proximity. I did have an issue a few years ago with Time Warner Cable where a contractor screwed up and hung the wrong grade coax on a pole.
I know a number of people in the process of permanently moving out of cities--in several cases to rural locations many hours away.
For people with houses, the office space cost is likely less than the commuting cost. But it is indeed an issue for many in tiny city apartments.
Don't assume everyone is as gifted as you are.
And even so, if half your waking time goes away as an opportunity to socialize, that's a big opportunity cost.
Not saying your experience isn't valid, but would you please stop generalising?
But the 2020 lockdowns will fundamentally increase the amount of remote work permanently to at least some degree.
Like how before Bernie Sanders ran for president, no one in mainstream US politics was even talking about socialized healthcare. Or how before Andrew Yang, no one outside of silicon valley had ever heard of UBI.
This is hyperbole, but you see what I mean.
I'll take quality over bandwidth any day.