I've posted this on HN before but in case there's someone here who's not in the UK or the US, but in mainland Europe and facing the same challenge: we've been there, it was a headache, and we came up with Spreedly/Ogone/Atos Worldline. It can be done. Here's our writeup: http://blog.quplo.com/2011/01/looking-back-on-the-quest-for-...

Thanks for sharing Adam, there should be more articles like this!