False-positive when you are first starting because you are not well adapted to utilizing ketones and urinate out most of the BHB.
False-negative when you are well adapted because usable fuel will not be wasted in urine.
It is generally accepted that the only foolproof way to truly know if you are in ketosis is to do a blood BHB measurement.
Other than that, I would only comment that it seems there are certain phenotypes that have much more success with low carb diets and vice versa with high carb diets. I don't think it is as easy as dismissing it because you had a poor experience.
Also, not particularly a fan of many of the observational nonsense coming out of both camps (low carb vs plant based) over the last few years. There was a HN article posted a while back but we really have a legitimacy problem in nutritional science right now. P-value hacking and nonsense correlation is just far too common and then most never read the study to get the true story behind the results.
Finally, this is anecdotal but I have known people whose libidos have dropped on low carb diets and also others who lost libido when they went most vegan (whole food, plant based). This supports the idea:
"Figure out what works for you and ignore the rest."
Crazy concept...