True Startup Competition
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I've often given advice, helpful links or other help freely to people you might consider my competitors. I think it's just a form of networking, and I'd rather win what success I have on merit and just working hard/smart enough to win over users.
In growing markets, you can both be acquiring customers, and have different niches. If customers are switching from your competitor to you or from you to your competitor, it can be more contentious. Other times, the same people may use both products for different needs. Also, you may have shared needs with your competitors, politically or other wise. Further, if both your customers are switching from an older solution, your real competitor is the old company.
Competition is not just other companies that do the same thing you do; competition is everyone -- and everything -- that solves the same problem for the same customer base. E.g. Coca Cola's competition is not just Pepsi, it's everything that is capable of ending someone's thirst, from tap water to cactuses.
Not only that - startups work in small markets. Having more companies in the market actually makes that market bigger and lends legitimacy to it. So having more companies "competing" for slices of a pie they're actively making larger is ... not really dog-eat-dog. More have-some-pie.