Plentyoffish.com - One server
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Scribd is a good Linux example, where they're doing quite a bit of traffic with a single 4-core web server. Although with Rails/Mongrel they'll never be anywhere near as efficient.
Markus isn't very forthcoming in mentioning that he has some monster SQL Server machines with a 60 drive 15k RPM SAN. That's doing most of the heavy lifting on his site, and is some expensive gear. His web application is an especially thin front-end to his database.
He also has 3 web servers handling his IM stuff.
http://plentyoffish.wordpress.com/2006/12/07/scaling-sql-server-2005-national-tv-usa-canada/ http://plentyoffish.wordpress.com/2006/12/01/8-way-dual-core-opterons-with-128gbram/
I have seen people compare only interpreted frameworks before (Django/Rails) but nothing like Rails/ASP.NET.