How do you compose your text messages? Are you always the person sending multi-lined or even paragraph responses? Try fitting your message in one to two lines while keeping the general meaning.
Example: "Hey, what did you do at the beach today? I heard the weather was nice." ----->>> "Hey how was the beach"
The second response cut out unnecessary details and flows more naturally. I get better conversations with people following this method.
Without seeing a writing sample, it is hard to gauge how you express your ideas. Maybe you try to 'connect the dots' too much and over-explain things. Remember, you are writing to professionals. You are not training monkeys on how to do a job.
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