Fundamental attribution error
effectiviology.com
effectiviology.com
Your anger has no legitimacy until you know and accept that you could have been the one to do the exact same thing. And then anger at people melts away to wisdom about things that can and cannot change.
Specifically the disturbing trend that has caused so much anger and outrage today, Socks and Crocs.
edit: Perhaps hindsight bias? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_cognitive_biases
Relevant excerpt: "..economists like W. Brian Arthur argue that a concurrence of minor factors can even lead companies with no particular edge to come to dominate their competitors. "In the real world," he wrote, "if several similar-sized firms entered a market together, small fortuitous events - unexpected orders, chance meetings with buyers, managerial whims - would help determine which ones received early sales and, over time, which came to dominate. Economic activity is... [determined] by individual transactions that are too small to foresee, and these small 'random' events could [ac]cumulate and become magnified by positive feedbacks over time."
"Does temporary mood influence the occurrence of the fundamental attribution error (FAE)? Based on recent affect–cognition theorizing and research on attributions, 3 experiments predicted and found that negative moods decrease and positive moods increase the FAE, because of the information-processing consequences of these affective states. In Experiment 1, happy mood enhanced and sad mood reduced dispositional attributions based on coerced essays advocating unpopular opinions. " [1]
Wait, so dour cynical people are better at interpreting events? Hmm.
[1] https://doi.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2F0022-3514.75.2....
> GROSS: That's from the first Fountains of Wayne CD. Do you think Robert Christgau was onto something? Do you think of yourselves as former shy guys who didn't get the girl?
> ...
> SCHLESINGER: [...] But at the same time, you know, people, especially in America - I think more so even than in Europe - assume that any voice that you have in a song is you confessing, you know, your inner thoughts. And the idea of writing from, like, the perspective of a character or something is a little bit confusing to people.
Source: https://www.npr.org/2020/04/03/826654716/fresh-air-remembers...
It's seeking to explain away decisions based on personality as if a personality based decision is any less prone to being temporary, erroneous, or that it's somehow a decision of the human (and so can just be discounted).
In reality, the human brain is not a perfect machine. We have a sense of what is 'neurotypical', sort of, but realistically everyone exhibits symptoms of some disorder at some point whether they're diagnosed or not.
A disorder also implies some sort of inability to function. Way below that are variations in mental state that still allow people to get by in a world formed for 'neurotypicals' (read: set up for less than 50% of the population, so realistically the 'typical' word there is kind of misleading).
We don't all see the world in the same way. We might see the same colours or the same patterns or whatever, but the extents of our emotions and our reactions to them (trained over decades) differ a lot.
My hypothesis is that the fundamental attribution error exists so that we feel less bad for punishing others for wronging us. We don't spend time weighing all the possible reasons for which they hurt us. We just retaliate because they're bad and they will always be bad.