We do have issues, here in NZ (racial profiling being one of them) but I am glad we don't have any additional issues brought about by the police having an overriding default concern that citizens could be armed.
I may be over simplifying it - but it is the biggest difference I can see.
To try to add some perspective for myself I compared some stats last week between NZ and the US.
You are __97x__ more likely to be killed by U.S police than you are by NZ police.
I came to this conclusion through looking at 5 years of NZ data and 6 years of U.S data. As a side note it seems to be agreed that the U.S deaths by police is under-reported due to there being no National database and processes in place to collect the data. On the flip side, keep in mind that NZ only had a sample of one police caused death over 5 years, so the NZ stats would change drastically with any increase in deaths.
I really hope the conversation can move to gun control - assuming the U.S. police professional standards to the public would more easily change if guns were off your streets.
The stats were derived from this following links: Sources
https://www.police.govt.nz/about-us/publication/tactical-opt...
https://mappingpoliceviolence.org/
I also wonder if that the high number of ex-military in the U.S. police force also plays into the military-mindset of 'us versus them' approach towards the community.