By all means, try to change the system, but telling others they should too is advice from an extremely privileged position.
By all means, try to change the system, but telling others they should too is advice from an extremely privileged position.
The argument from privilege frankly confuses me. I've applied the same principles both when I've been the underdog and the one asking others and it's good guidance since it also gives you input whether you want to work where you currently are. Sometimes I've had harder times because of it, but I've never stayed in an abusive work relationship.
So during the meeting, I said: that bug is just a sympthom, the module needs to be rewritten. And I knew what I was talking about.
No, said a senior, we're just going to fix the bug, no rewriting. I said that's your call, but I sure am not going to fix that bug. I can tell you: nobody listened to me.
So he more or less finished the discussion and said: I'm going to sit down with you, and we're going to fix that bug. And we did.
At that point it was the right call.