I couldn't bear to live there - Salt Lake City seemed to have the most similar upsides with next to none of the downsides.
I couldn't bear to live there - Salt Lake City seemed to have the most similar upsides with next to none of the downsides.
Tangential, but I feel the same way about NYC. I have lived in SF for ~3 years and have now been in NYC for ~4 years. I guess cities, that are HCOL, tend to exacerbate the (low and high income) class disparities, and maybe also heighten residents' stress and reduce their patience levels?
Since working more with west coast devs, I've learned to be "nicer" when communicating. But still have the same habits with my family. To be fair I think that some these habits are good to break.
One of the first people I met on the West Coast was about to move to the East Coast ... "because everyone's so much nicer there".
Either the people are always nicer somewhere else or something else is going on.
SLC seems nice in theory, until you realize Utah is a theocracy. Not a great place to live for anyone outside the LDS church.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Temple_garment
I used to live in the US, but I'm back home in Germany. I have 0 interest in going back.