There's absolutely nothing about the "laws of physics" that guarantees that this particular reactor design is going to be able to contain a full meltdown, because it's never happened before. Nobody knows.
"Concrete doesn't burn."
No one said it did. There's plenty of other stuff around that does burn readily, which is why the plant is currently on fire. A lot of that stuff is radioactive.
"Explosions don't just happen for no reason."
Indeed. But red-hot piles of radioactive waste are a good way of making explosions happen, particularly when there's lots of hydrogen gas floating around from the breakdown of the cooling water and the fuel. That's why there have been several explosions at the plant.
"Nuclear reactors don't hold enough fuel to form a critical mass. In order to become critical, they need a moderator (usually water) which thermalizes neutrons."
You're assuming an intact core. Criticality is a function of density, shape and temperature, in addition to mass. Melt the fuel rods, and the guarantees of that nice, well-moderated behavior are off.
In general, you're making lots of simplistic assumptions about a nicely behaved, engineered, controlled system. What they've got now is far messier. Moreover, a lot of the stuff that you're saying can't happen, is actually happening right now. The reality of the situation trumps your theories of the situation, however confident.