Of your deceased relatives, may them rest in peace, did anyone consciously choose the way to die? If not, why did they die? Because they wanted to? Because they didn't resort to drastic counter-measures?
My grandfather died of electrocution in 1996. Would he be still alive today, given that he was born in 1927, if he would meticulously scrutinize every millimeter of electric cords he ever touched for potential cracks?