That's a total failure. Absolute, complete, across-the-board failure of the human race.
Just a few decades ago the militarization of space was universally acknowledged as inappropriate and this was codified in international law.
That's a hell of an interpretation...
I'd instead say that the world powers recognized that nukes in space would be destabilizing, and banned that specific thing. Space has been militarized since the 60s.
Of course, actually there are weapons on some of the satellites but everyone pretends that there aren't to maintain stability. Publicly putting weapons in space is destabilizing, stupid to the point of evil.
Heck, even in the most idealistic portrayal of the future (Star Trek TNG) there's plenty of war in space.
Now then, you can't hold up Star Trek as something to help decide policy in actual space.
If anything "Moon is a Harsh Mistress" is the sci-fi to look to. I don't want to give a spoiler though, but, uh, whoever gets to the Moon first effectively rules the Earth.
That accounts for local space around the Earth, now Alan Dean Foster was the first sci-fi author to point out that war is impossible in space due to fundamental physics. I don't have the time to go into it now but it's not hard to work out once you clear away the mental/emotional dross.
In sum, "war" in "space" is a mental concept not grounded in physical reality. People have been watching too much fiction and are all screwed up in the head in re: the realities of space and physics.
If we wind up with "war" in "space" it will be a kind of theater that the powerful use to cow the naive.
Compared to the Soviets, Mao, German Reich #2 / #3, Napoleonic France... the world could do worse for the First nation to take the moon.
But I strongly suspect that we won't be able to colonize space without fixing our personal problems.
There are no effective international institutions. The human race hasn't figured out any way to unify on a global level. There are no world police - just scattered teams with nukes at each others' throats.
If history is any indication, being on the losing team means being on the wrong side of obliteration and conquest. Being on the winning team matters - a lot.
This is the prisoner's dilemma, without any benefit to cooperation. The US has the wealth and the industrial base to spread throughout the solar system faster and more aggressively than anyone else.
Whoever militarizes space first controls every other nation's access to space, and has the ability to deny access to opposing nations.
I'm thankful the US is doing it before China.