I'm a backend dev who does quite a bit of frontend though I deeply dislike the current state of frontend (bring back Webforms)
For me it all starts with the database, always. Code, ux, network is all ephemeral. The schema, the invariants and the data are forever. (this is also why I think microservices are often the wrong approach, you're solving a code problem at the expense of the data)
I've been thinking about the concept of code as pipes for data and the (incorrect) emphasis we place on code. This is why something like MongoDB never clicked for me, code is worthless without the data it operates on and ensuring the quality of that data takes priority over anything.
Of course you need to know roughly what the data will be used for and approaching it database first can result in some nasty surprises if the requirements change, but the rest of the code will rot and be replaced far sooner than the database. Given the churn on frontend the schema in the database will probably see 5 front end frameworks come and go.
Edit: having written this I realised this is also why I don't like or understand letting your ORM handle database migrations. The code is built on top of a dependable database, letting it inform the design of the database is completely the wrong way round, in my opinion.