I said 'if the Japanese escape unscathed.' If you're wondering where the 'goalposts' are, it's approximate to disasters that could happen at any other power plant: ie. workers injured/killed, maybe a few civilians hurt. That seems objective enough to me when you're comparing the safety of different power sources.
Obviously there can be no 'ultimate, ultimate proof' unless we get a direct line to God, but if you're going to be the person standing on top of the hill saying
'I don't care if you can show nuclear plants can withstand unheard of earthquakes and tsunamis, I don't care if there's 50 years of further research and improvement on those standards, I still wont believe nuclear power is safe. In fact there's pretty much nothing that would sway my assessment of nuclear safety...'
then I don't see why anyone should take you seriously.
edit: oh, and let's just wait for the clear light of day before we decide what exactly 'the situation' really is/was. I've seen many conflicting and retracted reports so far