This fixation on masks is puzzling to me. The evidence for their effectiveness is weak (particularly for non-medical masks) at best, and people have turned "social distancing plus masks" into "masks plus social distancing", which is exactly what public health experts were trying to avoid.
As you've noticed, a huge percentage of people don't know how to wear masks or don't care to know. Even if they do know and care, it's incredibly inconvenient and difficult to wear a mask properly, so people generally don't. Moreover, as you've also noted, people are consuming medical equipment that really should be reserved for professionals. It's exactly what researchers said would happen when the mandatory mask idea was floated, and it's why the CDC didn't recommend masks in the first place (and why the WHO still doesn't).
More and more research is calling out mask laws as a questionable idea:
https://www.cebm.net/covid-19/covid-19-masks-on-or-off/
https://www.dora.dmu.ac.uk/bitstream/handle/2086/19526/Face%...
https://bmjopen.bmj.com/content/5/4/e006577?ijkey=24b32ab627...
https://www.medrxiv.org/content/10.1101/2020.04.01.20049528v...
https://www.cidrap.umn.edu/news-perspective/2020/04/data-do-...
https://www.bmj.com/content/369/bmj.m1422
And yet, every day, I see comments judging people for not wearing them, not wearing them properly, etc. Again, there's little evidence for doing it, they're misused/misworn in practice, and they seem to lead to a false sense of security. Why are we doing this, again?