I'm blaming privileged people for lecturing and gaslighting people who are not as privileged.
It seems like no one is understanding your point... yes, it's an absolutely terrible idea for people to go back to work right now, but if it's literally between that and going hungry (because you know your government won't do shit to help you), then it's no surprise that some people will want to go back to work out of sheer necessity. In fact I'd be shocked if most of these Silicon Valley tools would come to any different conclusion if they were actually in the same boat.
Care to explain? Last time I checked, it was governments (monopoly of force) who issued stay at home and quarantine orders.
The US economy in not capitalist despite the popular belief; it's mixed. The current pain would not be as bad right now if it were not for the artificial asset bubbles that were created by Keynesians via cheap money in response to the last recession...
We The People
Sure, the problem isn't actually capitalism per se, but rather the rent treadmill fostered by extreme concentrations of capital. Our economy is strongly centrally planned via artificially low interest rates, with the overt goal of making everyone work full time - essentially by eroding labor's bargaining power versus capital.
If someone's latent paradigm causes them to see this dynamic as endemic to late stage capitalism, nitpicking with no true Scotsman isn't terribly useful unless you have a plan to keep the people who control large capital accumulations from continuing to influence monetary policy to their benefit. Putting aside terminology, your gripes would likely have more in common than not.