The software lets down all raspberry pi alikes.
The 3B and 4B have their own different hacks needed to get normal Linux distros running under 64bit, and it's nothing you can expect an average hobbyist user to figure out even with the resources put out by people in the community who have succeeded (unless they just flash some unsigned image containing god knows what uploaded out by some rando on a forum).
You’ll just find tons of things that don’t work when you use anything but rpi.
My experience has been the opposite of this.
RPIs have always been the hardest boards to get working.