Agree that power is the biggest limitation on drone/swarm concepts. Small engines / rotors are just not as efficient.
It is interesting to consider the change in tactics and design once you consider the fighter expendable. You don't have to turn away once you get shot at in-range -- you can keep flying and shoot at the point of maximum impact. The aircraft might only be designed to last for 10 combat hours, or to have a poor safety record. For example, in aircraft the design margin is ~1.5 (vs >2 for surface); for unmanned it might be ~1.1.
The drone-vs-human tactics will persist until both sides have competent drones, at which point they might evolve to look more like human-vs-human tactics: protect your high value assets, imperil theirs.