It's not a big lie, it's more of an American frame of mind.
What you described is called the "Just World" fallacy - you get what you deserve. Or a more modern term, "I got mine."
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Just-world_hypothesis
The US founders, the Pilgrims, were (religious) puritans, and that mindset carries on until today.
> you milk your youth
Politicians and the oligarchy are very concerned about personal moral hazard, not so much about corporate moral hazard. So youth get non-dischargeable student debt, and companies get bailouts. (Since most bills are written by lobbyists, not elected officials, it would be very interesting to see who wrote that education bill.)
How deep is the fear of personal moral hazard? There were bread riots and Washington, DC was occupied by rioters in the Great Depression after Washington refused to provide aid in case, "everybody would just stop farming."
As Warren Buffett said, "[The war between the poor and rich in America is over. You lost.]" (Note that he is one of the few billionaires who has gone on record about this, because he knows there's a problem with 15% capital gains tax rate for investors like him, when employees like his secretary pay around 40%.)
> you come out of your education and have 100k in debt.
Oh, and it's 200k in school debt, and no health care. And buy a car if you want to get around. Rock on!
More seriously, the US lacks a coherent policy on anything (healthcare, education, infrastructure, etc.) So it's an Oliver Twist-style existence for the bottom 99%.
You can probably use this search filter to find intelligent discussion about US politics, "no policy" plus "US" and your favorite topic. This isn't a Trump problem, it's a "too many lawyers in Washington" problem.
If you want to read astonishing truthfulness by politicians today, read anything by top Malaysian leader, Dr. Mahathir, or the investor Tan Teng Boo:
https://www.thesundaily.my/business/foreigners-exremely-caut...
How's that for transparency and honesty? Every conversation with those two is a roadmap for progress for their country. So it is possible.