That final link is very insightful. Not to pick sides, but if Lean really doesn't have subject reduction when you use quotient types, that's a crazy property to drop (or lose accidentally).
I have seen computer scientists emphasise to mathematicians that subject reduction should not be forfeit but I have yet to see a convincing argument/example for why not.
I don't suppose you can elaborate on why this may be / is so crazy, that someone with only a limited understanding of type theory might follow?