A professional is usually working in a dedicated workspace completely separate of a working area, and that distinction alone is important.
Everyone is aware they should wash their hands after working with lead solder, but if you’re working where you live, it’s all too easy to contaminate areas that you often come in contact with.
I remember trying to clean out my solder sucker one day and realizing the sucker was literally atomizing solder. Just cleaning that thing probably contaminated a good radius around my desk.
And I mean you can say “just wipe down the desk”, but that’s where the hobbyist aspect comes in, a lot of people will do this on a desk with a keyboard and a mouse, maybe a carpet, a ton of places for little bits of solder to hide.
They’re doing things that a professional probably wouldn’t do too, accidentally getting solder balls all over the place and stuff.
I’ve decided it’s not worth the risk. 99% of my soldering is through hole components you could solder with your eyes closed.
Most hobbyists are not doing the volume of soldering that any extra work with non leaded solder is going to be terrible anyways. And they’re also often not going to take precautions like wearing gloves and buying a fume extractor for the same reason