I wouldn't expect this to produce a speedup, because the SAT solver will already be doing it!
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It has no parent with the same symmetry, since every neighbour of the centre cell would be the same but a cell can't live or be born with 0 or 4 neighbours.But it does have a parent with less symmetry:
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.....The parent still has hor/ver mirror symmetries, and the solution rotated is also a solution. So there is a set of (in this case two) parents that is invariant under the same symmetries.
In general, a parent should still be a parent when any of the targets symmetries are applied. (But it wouldn't necessarily be the same parent).
This can be captured in a SAT by insisting that any symmetry of a solution is also a solution, which adds a lot of new constraints and no new variables, so should help with finding.