Over the last few years I’ve come to this exact realization as well. I used to think about it as a couple devs sharing a keyboard for interminable stretches and it made my skin crawl. Watching someone “drive” fumbling for buttons in the IDE and not using shortcuts makes me want to shoulder them out of the way and take over.

However, for short bursts (10minutes to max about 90) that are focused on a particular goal makes me feel both re-invigorated and more satisfied with the completeness of the ideas.

The re-invigoratation (for me) comes from not having to run my brain at 100% for the duration. In auto racing terms, my partner and I can take turns drafting off each other’s thoughts, increasing our mental efficiency.

When differences arise I love hearing their thoughts and finding ways to merge the best of both ideas- or completely tossing my own because theirs are better. I’ve heard it (no clue where or from whom) described as idea sex. I’m very okay with my ideas being promiscuous and having lots of better little idea babies.

I still haven’t figured out how to keep my skin from crawling watching people fumble around their UIs though...