> I'm doing this in part for the people who can't do this
A serious heartfelt THANK YOU for doing this.
> Also, some people want to hire you because you're a straight shooter
Absolutely!
Life's too short to work with people who are not looking out for you.
Life's too short to work with people who think they are pragmatic by being deliberately ambigious or outright misleading.
Just move on, if you can. There is more than one team out there thats exactly what you're looking for.
It might take time and effort on your part to find them, but with enough effort you will.
There absolutely are people who want to build a solid business.
Part of building a solid business is building solid relationships.
Evidence? Every company, that failed to build solid relationships, no matter how big to fail they were in the past, are nothing today.