I can assure you that my wife and I received orders of magnitude more nonsense from friends, family, colleagues and random assholes in the mall that saw her headscarf. The amount of unsolicited packages and potions we received at our doorstep from anonymous people over the course of her treatment puts anything that I brought to her doctor to shame.
>I'm sure in the modern era, when they are just trying what they know is the best researched, best chance they know for a successful path for you or your loved ones, they are beyond sick of hearing your alternative theses assembled from mommy blogs and witch doctors.
I get it. I really do as I personally was asked repeatedly to 'just try this' random bullshit for my wife all the time. There's a huge gap between sprinkling lion's mane mushroom on your eggs and seeking treatment for my wife's hyperglycemia that put her solidly in the diabetic category. Endocrinology wouldn't treat it because she didn't show elevated A1C, but I had nobody in my wife's corner to explain why A1C isn't a good signal when you're severely anemic and getting transfusions every other week. Google 'hyperglycemia cancer progression' with a 'site:gov' to keep it from NIH and other government agencies. There's a GIANT FUCKING SIGNAL that elevated blood glucose increases cancer progression, but I couldn't find a single doctor to even listen. To them it's all equivalent bullshit.
Maybe it's not fear then. Maybe it's apathy. I'm not sure that's better.