Interviews of German and Soviet Survivors of Stalingrad
facingstalingrad.com
facingstalingrad.com
My German wife, similarly, has grandparents who would not have met had it not been for the War (one grandfather walked home from Stalingrad having been taken prisoner during the battle).
I’m sure this story is true for many (we are history’s product) and I can’t be the only one a bit freaked out by my existential dependence upon the great bogeyman of history.