I do want a container with my own DNS-over-HTTP running on my own hosted VM (or Digital Ocean, or Vultr or Linode or whoever) and I'll ship my DNS queries there.
You might also be interested in looking at https://dnsdist.org/guides/dns-over-https.html
I'm in the "this should be done by the system resolver" camp, and I hope they figure out how to push that for all the major platforms ...
There are numerous other options like Google, Quad9, OpenDNS, OpenNIC, DNSWatch or Verisign, each of which have pros and cons like speed, privacy, reliability or accuracy. Many people also use VPNs which provide DNS servers that are perceived to increase privacy.
I know this is currently US only but were it to roll out worldwide, personally I'm in a country with strong legal privacy protections and trust my ISP far more than any American company.
In my home setup I'm already using DNS over TLS to talk to the internet, but on the LAN requests go to my DNS server, get cached there, etc.